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August 18, 2017

The twins go to college


Dear World, We, with the help and intercession of many people, have done our best with this soul, and today we share him with you. May God bless him and keep him, may His Face shine upon him and be gracious to him. 
In a few hours Thomas will leave for his freshman year at Thomas Aquinas College. 

Dear World, 
Today we launch another soul into you. He again is our very best, formed with grace and the prayers of our family and friends. May God, the Father of all mercies, enlighten his heart and fill him with every grace and blessing. 
This morning Anthony left for St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia, sponsored by the Diocese of Raleigh. 

February 10, 2014

Anthony's Scout Sunday Sermon

Anthony is the Chaplain's Aide and gave this talk 
on a point of the Scout Law for Scout Sunday.

Through out history the human race has been endowed with a special gift: the will to help our neighbor.

Lord Robert Baden Powell the, founder of the Boy Scouts, made helpfulness and duty to God his main goal in scouting. He describes this goal by saying,

"The Scout, in his promise, undertakes to do his duty to his king and country only in the second place; his first duty is to God. It is with this idea before us and recognizing that God is the one Father of us all, that we Scouts count ourselves a brotherhood despite the difference among us of country, creed, or class. We realize that in addition to the interests of our particular country, there is a higher mission before us, namely the promotion of the Kingdom of God; That is, the rule of Peace and Goodwill on earth. In the Scouts each form of religion is respected and its active practice encouraged and through the spread of our brotherhood in all countries, we have the opportunity in developing the spirit of mutual good will and understanding.

Lord Baden-Powell then goes on by saying, "There is no religious  "side" of the movement. The whole of it is based on religion, that is, on the realization and service of God.

"Let us, therefore, in training our Scouts, keep the higher aims in the forefront, not let ourselves get too absorbed in the steps. Don't let the technical outweigh the moral. Field efficiency, back woodsmanship, camping, hiking, Good Turns, jamboree comradeship are all means, not the end. The end is CHARACTER with a purpose.

He finishes by saying, "Our objective in the Scouting movement is to give such help as we can in bringing about God's Kingdom on earth by including among youth the spirit and the daily practice in their lives of unselfish goodwill and cooperation."


Reflecting on this it is easy to see the simplest form of help can be something like helping an elderly lady across the street. Even this basic act fulfills one point of the scout law: a scout is helpful. However, we are called to be more helpful than simply guiding an elderly lady across the street. Many people have taken it to the next step, some remarkably far.

Last year scouts from this troop went around neighborhoods asking people to donate old coats, which we brought back to this church who then distributed them to people in need. Even more recently we held a blanket drive to give blankets to elderly people. Yet, we are called to be doing even more. Lately, troops in this county have been fortunate to yield many new Eagle Scouts who, in order to earn their eagle, were challenged to do a service project that they themselves planned and carried out.

I would like to share with you one in particular which stands out to me. Recently a 17-year-old scout decided to carry out an exceptional project. He elected to direct a production of “Beauty and the Beast” where every single actor was mentally disabled. He went above and beyond so that people with developmental disabilities would get a chance to be on stage. His success was spectacular. He followed the words of Isaiah, who instructed the Israelite community by saying, “If you pour yourself out for the hungry and satisfy the desire of the afflicted, then shall your light rise in the darkness and your gloom be as the noonday sun.” Is. 58:10.

Helpfulness is not simply lending a hand when convenient, but being willing to offer up a sacrifice for somebody else. Marriage is a great example because, in marriage, both spouses are called to make sacrifices for each other in their every day lives. This kind of helpfulness is the true substance of love.

In Matthew, chapter 25, verses 35-36 Our Lord gives us seven instructions on how to be helpful. These are: to feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, shelter the homeless, visit the sick, give clothing to the naked, visit the imprisoned, and bury the dead. Even if we cannot do these on as great a scale as the scout whom I mentioned earlier, we are still called to give as much as we can.

When serving others, we should always keep one goal in mind. That is the dedication of all we do for the greater glory of God. By this I mean we must all do every action in such a way or with such  purpose as to give glory to our Creator.

Even the scout who directed the play did not achieve the ultimate success. The only person to ever reach the highest amount of helpfulness is Our Lord Jesus Christ. He says that the greatest thing we can do is to lay down our life for our brother. In His agony and in the cross, Christ fulfilled this goal when He died for us so we might have the opportunity to go to Heaven and enjoy forever the joy of meeting our God.

In the crucifixion, Jesus achieved the ultimate level of helpfulness and happiness, and every one here, from the smallest baby to the best Eagle Scout to the holiest man is called, maybe not to offer up our lives, but to imitate Jesus Christ to the greatest extent we possibly can, whether that is by becoming a martyr or simply by helping an elderly lady across the street.

So I challenge you to go out today and the next day and the next, and find some way in which you can be helpful for your neighbor. And when you serve that neighbor I want you to offer up your sacrifice for the Greater Glory of God.

August 29, 2012

Anthonyisms

Anthony and I were talking today about his vocation to the priesthood and his feelings about girls. I told him that he would have to learn to be able to friends with women while getting used to being chaste. 

He looked at me with confusion. 

"I have to get used to being chased?"

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Anthony came up to me and asked if I could have 4 more kids by the time I am 47 because then we would have a chance at becoming a big family. 

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(PG-13)

Watching Jim Gaffigan's "Mr. Universe" we were all laughing at his piece on babies. He starts by describing the miraculous nature of a woman's body: it grows a baby, it births a baby, it feeds a baby. His next comment is that the man's brief contribution to the miracle is spending a few minutes actually doing what he thinks about all day. 

Anthony looked at me and said, "Eating?"

April 3, 2012

Odds and ends

Spring, birthday season, Easter. They are coming; they are here. Here are some glimpses into our recent past:
Maria in front of the USS Yorktown

Cecilia was especially excited by the "vendor" machines

Dominic and I got to see the berthing quarters

Look at the relaxed and happy faces of the unplugged, living it up outside, pre-teens!


Charles' valet service

Dominic's first time driving the cart

ready to hit the strawberry patch

January 18, 2012

End of an Era

Me:  This is a "Twinkie."

Anthony: Oooooh, I've seen one in a picture.

The kids' only reference for Twinkies was this image from Wall-E

October 17, 2011

One Glorious day of computer time


We few, we happy few. 
 Salvae. For one brief moment you will enjoy the awesomest May in the gaggle.





ME!
            Through the years I have been the background character with Pooh Bear,
Anthony. But not today! So, brief gallery of of pictures anyone?
I loathe the smell of cigar smoke.



This is Thomas, not as good looking as me. Though we mostly
work together, we fight ohhhhhh every 5 hours.
 

                                                                                                                      


We seem to bear a remarkable resemblance.









My typewriter.
Me in my successful scout career.    
































Through my life I must attribute my successes to three people:  my mom, Thomas and Pooh Bear.
So, bye for now, and we will see you next week on the Mays' Days.

October 4, 2011

Clone Army: who's who?

One of them rolled over today!
A

B

C

D

E

F


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January 14, 2011

Who we are this week--the 10 family member version

Bill's quiet and thorough personality have made our new house hunting adventure much less stressful than it otherwise would be.  In a few weeks we hope to be homeowners.  To increase his personal fitness, his new workout plan involves lots of push ups.  He has all the kids participating too, so anytime one of them crosses from the carpet to the hardwood in the kitchen, he/she falls to the floor to do a few.  It's been pretty funny watching Joseph rock on his stomach trying to get it off the floor.

Rachel usual scattered approach to doing all things necessary is getting an overhaul by the Mother's Rule of Life.  She's hoping that in a short time she will have learned to keep the house clean, the kids schooled, the aprons sewed, and the Christmas cards done in a timely and orderly manner.

We have Thomas (11) who is fairly outgoing and friendly and in that preteen stage where he takes things seriously.  He loves legos and reading and taking pictures.  He is a little shorter than Anthony which helps telling them apart if they are together.  

Anthony (11) is the compliment to Thomas so he is a little more serious and introverted and contrariwise.  He is also the one who talks about his faith more and tries to tell a lot of jokes.  He often has two problems with whatever you say and loves to tell you what they are.  He's also very gentle with small kids and seeks out the child that everyone else ignores.  

Maria (10) LOVES babies and will ask about a billion times to hold any baby she meets.  She's artsy and enjoys sewing and singing.  She and Cecilia are involved in an American Heritage Girls group at our parish which is her one activity.  She and Thomas and Anthony look and act like triplets a lot of the time.  They are the "big kids".  

Charles (8) is quiet and social, however those two things work together.  Everyone plays legos  here, and he's probably there in the Lego zone if he isn't wrestling someone on the living room floor and driving his mother crazy.  Charles, Anthony and Thomas are all Scouts.  

Cecilia (6) is sunshine.  Or she is a golden retriever bounding up to you with her tongue hanging out.  When she is tired or asked to do what she thinks is an insurmountable task, say, sweeping the kitchen, she is a very rainy rain cloud.  She's also quite "sporty" and used to take me running when I was 9 months pregnant with Joseph.

James (4) looks either like he thinks the world is going to end or like he just won the lottery.  This week we've had a lot more of the lottery winning face which has been nice.

Joseph (2) compares well with a  butterball turkey.  He and James both wear 4T clothes and play together a lot, often with Joseph as lead trouble maker.  He's also my very cuddly guy, and I love to sit with him on my lap and just hold him.  He has just started to talk more, so if you speak monkey, you will understand everything he says.

and the new baby:
 pregnancy week by week

September 30, 2010

"A" in Socialization

Anthony with his buddy Augustine (Gus).  

September 25, 2010

Untapped Resources

Right now there is a focus on earning enough money for the boys to go to summer camp next year.  All spare income is set aside as seed money for Thomas' apron business.  Anthony has asked all our friends and neighbors to save steel and aluminum cans so he can recycle them for money.  And the 3 boys put all of their allowance into the camp jar as soon as they get it.  They have even talked about letting me cut their hair so that the haircut money could go there too.  There is almost no discretionary spending.

Recently, I walked into the bathroom to find Anthony at the sink with a handkerchief around a loose tooth which he wiggled in earnest.  There was blood all over the sink, counter and mirror.   Concerned, I asked him what he was doing.  Here is his reply:  "Remember how I spent that 50 cents on the snow cone today?  Well, if I get this tooth out, the Tooth Fairy will  bring me 50 cents tonight, and I can put it back in the camp  jar."  

I think I won't share that some people sell their kidneys....

August 19, 2009

Rhinoplasty and other sewing projects

Tonight I'm sewing on Pooh Bear's nose. This is the second time that Anthony has asked me to fix Pooh's nose because Joseph has loved it...with his teeth. And this time he has had to wait 2 days because I am in the middle of helping Maria sew a dress. I feel like everyone has found something for me to mend or stitch. A Halloween costume. A hole in some pjs. A nose.

Poor old Pooh. He was a gift from Uncle John and Aunt Theresa back before Anthony knew who they were. He was one of several offerings from their suitcases, and he was the one who stuck. Of the soft friends in this house, he has been the best loved and most faithful.

I admit I feel bad shoving a needle in one side of his nose and out the other. It looks like it hurts, and a few times I've paused to stroke his old fur and give him a break. And I know a boy who will be just as relieved as Pooh and I when this project is done.

December 25, 2008

Midnight Mass


For weeks Anthony has been practicing the responsorial psalm for the Christmas Vigil Mass, only to find out a week ago that he was supposed to have learned the one for Midnight Mass. He cheerfully accepted this news--and the challenge--and worked very hard on his recorder all week to learn the tune of the new psalm. At Mass he was given a special seat with the musicians and played beautifully according to Bill.

October 9, 2008

Joseph's Journal--October

Last night I overheard Anthony talking to Joseph:


"Portugal."

"Spain."

"England."

"Crossbow."


"Broadsword."

"Flint."

"Knife."

"Rock."

"Bellybutton."

"Tickle."

When he saw me looking at him, Anthony said, "I'm just teaching him the words he needs to know to survive in life."

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October has been a big month for Joseph. He is trying to crawl and starting to wave and cutting teeth. He can sit a little and scoot all over on his tummy and play with any type of chewable object. He loves to jump in the jumper, and it looks like he's going to start table food soon. He ate a goldfish cracker at lunch today!



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Last week Maria spent the night in Thomas and Anthony's room. To most people this is no big deal, but to the parents of quite-a-lot this was a Golden Opportunity!

"James," I asked,"Do you want to sleep in Maria's bed and let Baby Joseph sleep in the crib?"



After 2 successful nights with Joseph in the crib, I dragged an old mattress out and put it on the floor of James' and Maria's (and Joseph's) bedroom.

"Is that James' new bed?" Cecilia asked wide-eyed. And before I was back with sheets, she and James had spread the blankets and positioned the pillow just so. And then as we read bedtime stories, each child walked in and exclaimed, "Is this James' new bed?!", "Can I sit on it?!" or "Great bed, where did you get it?!" All this over a matress on the floor....

August 6, 2008

Thought for the Day


This is what Anthony asked to do today: cuddle on the couch and read Joseph a book. He chose Joseph's Hands. And Joseph paid close attention.